Cognitive Introspection(The child is the father of the man).Motivational

The child is the father of the man

The difficult child is the one who is unhappy. He is at war  with himself and at war with the world. He is rebellious and sees the negative side in every aspect of life.

No happy man has ever preached war, abused someone, and looked down upon so as to boost their ego. Beat his wife or cheat on her and neglect the responsibility of fatherhood. Moreover, no happy woman has ever abandoned her kids, nag her husband nor hate the in-laws, no matter how one treats them(mark you people treat you the way you present yourself to them). No happy human being has ever committed murder, cheat on their spouse. No happy Employer has ever frightened the employees in any way nor laden them with much work and little pay. No happy employee has ever refused to neither follow rules and regulations of a company nor discriminate his workmate due to position held.

All these crime, war, worries, fear, hatred can be reduced to unhappiness. We tend to be despondent and laden with grief if we don’t appreciate what we have at hand. This starts from young age. If you are unhappy that your friends have something and you don’t, you may end up a hostile and a hypocrite human being(Thats why you tell a friend you look smart but inside you are chocked and dont mean a word you said,only to end up gossiping them when they leave).  

The child is the father of the man.

Due to recalcitrant ways, one at a tender age develop the urge to steal his friend’s toys, bully his friend and so many other crimes. Their temper is fragile hence a buster in growth. They tend to make a living help for the other kids, little do they know they are rearing themselves to monsters.

The kid from the spoon fed lifestyle is also at risk like kids from other community as some of them aren’t taught how to share and also they are egoist .They look down upon a kid who doesn’t have and the latter tend boot-lick so as to play with the former toys. These kids are unhappy if you stop spoon feeding them with gift and luxuries and let them find their own ways to life.

Maybe you had passed via any of the above, change is inevitable and you are still the child to you. Your parents will forever be your parents no matter how old you are and will always want the best for you. Being a child to yourself, I believe you are still enthralling to the betterment of yourself. No one has ever wanted to be the bad him/her, but due to unhappiness we all tend to lose our ways, amid so much bitterness, it seems they do not lose the hope of achieving happiness one day without knowing how or in what way.

We all have moments of enjoyment and pleasure. Never confuse this with happiness. Partying, club hoping, road trips are just moments to enjoy but after they are over, do you go back to the unhappy state or what are the feelings that you experience. Analyze yourself in regards to this.

Be the best father who can mentor the son in him. Pursue dreams to ensue happiness. Happiness is never pursued but it can be earned, just like the little child who is months old doesn’t know anything but he is happy. Emulate that. Be contented with what you have so that you can get what you want. Give that inner child peace and acceptance. Do a revolutionary psychology in you. Study why you behave in certain manner with the aim of bettering you.Do a cognitive introspection

The best battle to conquer is the war of the mind and it’s the hardest to conquer, it need self evaluation and the passion to go ahead. When you conquer it, you start seeing possibility and opportunity in every difficulty and learn that Gods time is the best. You start doing something, without fear of what the masses will say. You live as you not as a person whom you have perceived is you to please. The whining, the hatred, the fear, the jealousy all disappear one by one. This is not a walk over or given on a silver plate. It need sacrifice, volition .This is when the child start being the father of the man in accepted way by the inner most. Its all your choice, to die happy or unhappy.To live happy or unhappy. Choices have consequences choose wisely.

 Compiled By

Esther Wavinya