Saturday, March 15, 2014

YOUR HERO CAN MAKE OR BREAK YOU



           YOUR HERO CAN MAKE OR BREAK YOU

Hero is a person, typically a man/woman, who is admired or idealized for courage, outstanding achievements, or noble qualities. We can also say he/she is a person who, in the opinion of others, has heroic qualities or has performed a heroic act and is regarded as a model or ideal.

We all have a hero or heroes in our lives whom we emulate and want to be like them or better than them. We think about them in our daily lives. We follow them on twitter and facebook. We always want to know what they are up to. When our hero is in the limelight having done something bad,we find mechanism to defend them forgetting they are human beings and are prone to mistakes,faults and inaccuracy,faux pas and solecism. We feel let down forgetting the positive side of their stories which attracted them to us.

A hero should be someone who stirs us positively and his negative side should be overlooked by you as an individual. Never give an excuse of following the bad traits of your hero since he/she did something
inaccurate. We as the spectators to our hero know what is right and what is wrong hence lets get aroused by the positive side and overlook the negative. With these we will make better us than our heroes.

A good example of a hero breaking someone is seen in Adolf Hitler of Nazi in German,his hero being Benito Mussolini of Fascism in Italy. Hitler admired how Benito ruled Italy as he studied his way of ruling. Hitler then set in action and Nazi was born,becoming more authoritative than his admirer Benito. Looking at the way they died was a sad end as they died hated citizens of their countries and world at large. This teaches us that a hero can break us if his/her character is execrable,hence his/her complacency and reprehensible laxity.

Looking at Lupita,an Oscar award winner, she talks of her hero being Oprah in the color purple. Her hero made her what she is know. She has become the talk of the world just as Oprah was after doing the Movie color Purple. So Lupita followed the footstep and has become what she is now. Here we learn that a hero can make someone.

If your hero is Kim kim kardashian is ones hero,it will be seen in the endless nude photos one uploads in the social media and the shoddy behavior in ones character hence you are rated as a second class,inferior,unacceptable,amateurish and unwelcome in the society as you will be trending for the wrong reasons.

Emulating a hero who impact positivity in one's life is the best thing ever as you will never feel inferior as your character will be a desired and approved one. You will feel great,acceptable, hate and hearty which will render you happy and excited hence living your life with joy and serenity.

You have a choice to choose your hero as desiring an hero is inevitable. We as human being are obliged to have a hero. We do have one openly and some heroes are a secret as we adore them in our subconscious mind and never let our peers know about them. All in all they influence the choices we make in our live either knowingly or unknowingly.

The best hero is you. I quote Mark Twain, “Unconsciously we all have a standard by which we measure other men, and if we examine closely we find that this standard is a very simple one, and is this: we admire them, we envy them, for great qualities we ourselves lack. Hero worship consists in just that. Our heroes are men who do things which we recognize, with regret, and sometimes with a secret shame, that we cannot do. We find not much in ourselves to admire, we are always privately wanting to be like somebody else. If everybody was satisfied with himself, there would be no heroes.”

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