Friday, June 20, 2014

In primary school we were taught that we have three basic needs but as we grew up we discovered other basic needs - love,growth,certainty to mention but a few.But love surpasses all.. This is true. love is a basic need the inner being wants.Just do a cognitive introspection and you will fathom my words.we all need that special person to reciprocate the love we feel for them back.I know some of you will vehemently deny this assertion but its true.We need love.Those who don't need it have been heart broken beyond repair and can never admit it.But even broken glasses can be recycled and remoulded.Fact is deep inside, you yearn to be loved,true love.Love is something that precedes our being..People need to feel loved which enables us to operate as healthy balanced and happy human beings.One can stay single but that doesn't mean she/he  cannot fall in love.

Single people fall in love to just that the thought of living with someone in the same house for the rest of their lives nauseates them.They need love,if they don't  they go to bed Alone,and will do so for many years yet to come.Nevr be cheated that one has an Iron heart that does not want love.We all need and this is irrefutable.Looking at history all the great people leaned on love despite being of same gender of opposite

It is really important to have that person there.the person who will understand you .Who will be there when you walk in door, or having someone to cuddle up to at night when you go to bed, and  just Knowing that he/she will be there when you wake up in the morning. Humans are a 'Social Animal.' Even the most Unsociable of us, do need Human contact to survive. ...... In a way, we really are like Rats! They are like that too.

People should stop confusing being single and wanting love.Humanity thrives with love.Love gives hope.We all fancy and blink within to prevent tears when we see couples who have been resilient during the adversity of life.We deeply wish we can be like them subconsciously.If you had no love and affection, how could you feel like your a part of the human race? you probably could live, but i just couldn't see any point in it.

Without love and affection life will be a struggle. I'm not talking about just loving a spouse but loving everyone around you. Being a generally good person will have that come back to you, or for lack of a better word, what comes around goes around. You do something nice for someone else, and it will be returned. Of course you're going to feel empty without having good people that understand you around you.

 
 
All our lives we always want love,and when we get it we are afraid that we will lose it. This fear
 
 

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